(VIDEO) The Wednesday Five: Spring Dresses, Ashley Judd’s Epic MediaBusting, and Inspiration from Lilly Ledbetter
This week, blogs explored gazillions of dresses, interviewed a fair-pay heroine, and re-introduced Beat Generation goddess Diane di Prima.
- Spring has sprung, and to some of us that means DRESSES. Check out this slideshow from New York magazine, with “130 spring frocks, from florals to maxi dresses.” At FabulousAfter40.com, JoJami Tyler and Deborah Boland—The Glam Gals muse on the classic wrap dress — “It’s made of a soft, supple jersey fabric that does not wrinkle so doesn’t need to be ironed. It’s lightweight, comfortable and will flatter most figures!”—and suggest checking out Karina Dresses, whose buyers and designers “specialize in simple yet comfortable dresses that are made for the over 40 body type with just enough plunge and yet a little more coverage than other wrap dresses we have seen. (They even use models we can relate to… not teenagers!)” Click over for a video and much more.
- Yesterday was Equal Pay Day, perfect timing for this week’s The Feministing Five interview with the remarkable Lilly Ledbetter, of the landmark equal-access-to-justice law that bears her name. Her case, Feministing’s Anna reminds us, is “an important reminder that it’s easy for those without the best interests of everyday men and women in mind to reverse equal pay laws and make it even harder to reach justice. By refusing to acknowledge and take action against discriminatory pay, employers and politicians continue to relegate women to second-class citizens in this country.” The interview itself is full of goodies, including that Eleanor Roosevelt is one of Ledbetter’s heroines: “That lady was way ahead of her time. . . . she took a lot of criticism and a lot of flak, but stood her ground and made a lot of headway. You know we women haven’t even been voting for 100 years yet.” Ledbetter also praises companies that “are beginning to treat women fairly” and updates us about the newest version of the the Paycheck Fairness Act, which will be re-introduced in the Senate soon.
- We hope you’ve already been enjoying the amount of energy sparked by Ashley Judd’s landmark essay in last week’s The Daily Beast (we did link to it in “In the News”). GiaVanne, who spends most of her time “indulging my inner Diva” at Giavanne’s Gems, took time out to exult about it. “In an essay published Monday, April 9th on, Ashley Judd delivered the equivalent of a super-sized “Bitch Slap” to the media in response to the gazillion negative comments made last month regarding her appearance. The Ashley media fest began because her face ‘looked puffy,’ after taking medication which included steroids to fight off a sinus infection.” Click over for more, an excerpt from the piece, including “Our voices, our personhood, our potential, and our accomplishments are regularly minimized and muted.” We couldn’t agree more.
- When you’re moving house, like one of WVFC’s editors, EVERY possession comes under suspicion. So Geri, the founder and editor of FabOverFifty.com, is taking the opportunity to re-evaluate “Kitchen appliances that I’ve used twice, such as a hot sandwich maker by Salton. I do have one of the original Cuisinart food processors from the seventies, and although it’s the size of a small child, I may continue to save it. My great great great grandchild can take it to The Antiques Roadshow when it broadcasts from Mars.” Also going in the recycler: ‘Ticket stubs from plays I don’t remember, receipts from items I no longer possess, take-out menus from restaurants that went out of business decades ago, letters of praise from former bosses . . .” But other items can’t be relinquished, “such as select pictures of my children over the years that remind me how precious life is and how fast it flies; handmade cards from my kids that make me smile; my high school diploma, just because; my dad’s cufflinks that remind me of him looking dapper in his dress shirts; letters I typed to my youngest sister when she was doing her doctoral work in Buenos Aires (I don’t have the faintest idea why I have them) because they show me that the way I thought about her 40 years ago is much like I think of her today.” How often do you assess your stuff?
- Women’s Enews gives us the heads-up on Melanie LaRosa’s new film (video below), The Poetry Deal: A Film With Diane di Prima. Explaining why she had to go rogue in her documentary techniques, LaRosa cites her subject’s era for guidance: “The Beat writers’ style and choice of subject got them banned and rejected by major publishers. They responded by creating their own venues and presses,” she writes. “In 1961, di Prima started the journal “The Floating Bear,” which she ran with Amiri Baraka (then LeRoi Jones) for many years. It forged ties among writers around the nation and world. She also began poetry presses that published her own work and that of Audre Lorde, Barbara Guest, David Henderson and others.” We can’t wait to see the film, and maybe feature it some Poetry Sunday.
The Wednesday Five: News Junkies for Truth, Design Secrets and the Paycheck Fairness Act as National Security
This week in blogland, feminist Robin Morgan on the recent “sex scandals,” glimpses of award-winning fabrics being born, and why the Paycheck Fairness Act is the ultimate example of family values.
- We’ve all felt slapped by the news lately, with more powerful-men-behaving-badly stories than usual. It’s time, we guess, for the premier Feminist News Junkie, eminence grise et belle Robin Morgan. She slices through what’s most creepy about the recent stories about Arnold S., criminal cases involving New York City cops and the head of the International Monetary Fund, and even Osama bin Laden’s porn stash. Raising questions about the meaning of consent in the Schwarzenegger and John Ensign cases, Morgan then inoculates us: “Inappropriate. Consensual. She came onto him. Womanizing. No sense of humor. Rumors and allegations. Conspiracy to frame him. Phrases we all, men as well as women, by now ought to recognize immediately, which would save us from repeatedly falling over platitudes with an air of great discovery.”
- Women in Uganda are taking the future of their country into their hands with a “Walk to Work” campaign, writes Beatrice Lamwaka at Ms. Musings. Earlier this month, they marched through Kampala demanding change, carrying placards “with demands such as ‘For a country without bread, bullets cannot be food,’ ‘Stop shooting our babies,’ ‘Women of Uganda want peace,’ ‘Fuel prices must go down’ and ‘Respect women’s bodies during arrests.’ ” We’d like to add one more demand, Listen to those women, because we’ve got their backs.
- Lara Hinz, director of programs at the Women’s Institute for a Secure Retirement (WISER), guest blogs at Your Wo(Man) in Washington. She notes what we all know about caregivers: it often interferes with the financial planning we know we need to do. “For most women, there is little room for error, and being financially unprepared for the last nearly third of their lives will have consequences. Women need to know what their risks are and make moderating those risks a priority throughout their lives. So while caring for others, take some time to care for yourself — it’s well worth it, and you deserve it!”
- Along the same lines, Women Drivers makes a new case for the Paycheck Fairness Act as what’s needed for the economy. “Maybe this time the act will be correctly cast as a family economic stability act, not an entitlement for women. As though we all need a third shift: fighting for the right to get what we earned in the first shift.” After all, she notes, “Women carried households through the recession.”
- Ever wonder how compelling fabrics and homes are dreamt up? Wouldn’t it be cool to go behind the scenes in a top design studio? WVFC’s own Stacey Bewkes did, got her wish, and shared it at her site Quintessence. Click over for highlights of her visit to Kravet Fabrics, including lush rugs, clean linens and some semi-secret designs you’ll see next at Disney World.
Today, April 12, is Equal Pay Day in the United States — a way to address the fact that U.S. women still make 77 cents for each dollar that men earn. We can’t make it to the flash mob on Capitol Hill or join the women from 9to5 and AAUW lobbying for the long-stalled Paycheck Fairness Act. But we can bring you Lilly Ledbetter, from an Equal Pay Day two years ago, talking about how her fight against Goodyear Tire Co. taught her that we still need to fight. Have you called your Senator yet?
The Wednesday Five: The Failure of Fairness, Elves on Broadway, Concerns About Retirement Age and The Twinkie Diet
This week from the blogosphere: a look at the new “Twinkie diet,” some sobering numbers about the pay gap and Social Security, a blogger’s stardust memories, and a glowing review from Broadway & Me of a perhaps-unlikely Hollywood-to-stage story.
- We first heard about the failure of the Senate to tackle the Paycheck Fairness Act from Liz O’Donnell’s Hello Ladies, which followed up soon after with some solid facts in So the Wage Gap Continues. Noting that over a lifetime, that gap costs college-educated women $1.2 million, and $2 million for a professional school graduate, O’Donnell says that to take “the economic security – of women – and their families and turn it into a partisan issue” is “shameful…absolutely shameful.”
- At her popular The Blog That Ate Manhattan, Dr. Margaret Polaneczky comments on reports of an apparently successful diet focusing mostly on Hostess Twinkies. “As a lifelong dieter forever looking for the ultimate weight loss tool, a new diet is always appealing [and] I can see distinct advantages in a weight loss program that includes previously forbidden foods and which is successful, at least in the short term,” she generously concedes–then rolls out more reasonable guidelines for long-term health.
- Our Diane Vacca isn’t the only one concerned about recent proposals by some budget hawks to raise the age at which we can collect Social Security. In part of As Time Goes By’s Gray Matters series, Saul Friedman looks at some of the raw data. “The higher the retirement age, the shorter the lives of retirees. That, of course, is one way of saving money,” Friedman notes acidly. “Widows and widowers don’t cost taxpayers and Social Security as much as a retiree who lives a full life and draws a full benefit.”
- Wise Web Woman, inspired by a column about early, fruitless romances of Princess Margaret, takes a moment to remember and describe some long-past stories of her own.”These long lost loves never grow old or bald or have prostate problems or bad breath,” she notes. Ah, romance.
- It’s early in the holiday season, but Jan at Broadway & Me was still charmed by the new Broadway version of “Elf.” Her review includes an elegant summation of why: “David Rockwell’s sets intentionally echo Christmas pop-up books, Gregg Barnes’ costumes are seasonably jolly and the music by Matthew Sklar and Chad Beguelin, the duo behind the stage version of The Wedding Singer, is so Christmasy that people in the audience started to sing along as though they already knew the songs. ” If you’re intrigued by Jan’s full review and the clip below, you might want to consider a holiday ticket splurge.
This week saw the failure of many hopes that the Paycheck Fairness Act, passed by the House last year, would pass the Senate in the lame-duck session and become the law of the land. Instead, even debate on the bill was blocked when only 58 Senators voted to allow debate to proceed without a filibuster. (Yes, the maneuver that one journalist calls the “Tarantino,” because “it kills bills.”) Below, watch as advocates for fair pay meet at the White House to discuss next steps.
“The purpose of the meeting was to discuss today’s Senate vote on the Paycheck Fairness Act and the Administration’s ongoing efforts to promote equality and economic security for American women and their families,” presidential adviser Valerie Jarrett wrote in an email statement sent immediately afterward. She called it “inspiring” to meet with “women who have dedicated their careers to the fight for equal rights for women, including Lilly Ledbetter, who became a relentless advocate for equal pay after fighting her own battle against discrimination.” In the video below, President Obama speaks informally with the group, which included Jarrett; Melody Barnes, the Director of the Domestic Policy Council; Tina Tchen, Director of the Office of Public Engagement and Executive Director of the White House Council on Women and Girls. We’ll keep you posted on recommendations that come out of these meetings, and possible next steps for those who want to take more action.
The Wednesday Five: That Sexist Facebook Movie, Washington Worries, and Going Under the Hood (VIDEO)
This week’s roundup of blogosphere goodies includes a smashing video from auto mechanic Ann Farmer, and a discussion of why women in tech are justifiably outraged at their erasure from blockbuster flick The Social Network.
- At AOL’s The Frisky.com, Jessica Wakeman explains Why Washington, D.C. Won’t Be Getting A National Women’s History Museum, despite near-universal support for the project, including $1 million from Meryl Streep.
- Speaking of Washington, recess arrived without a Senate vote on the Paycheck Fairness Act. Even more reason to read Cassandra Gaddo’s passionate defense of the act’s importance to our families, in Today’s Chicago Woman.
- Nadine Brunk’s An American Midwife in Haiti, is a good way to mark National Midwifery Week, and to remind ourselves that the Haiti “crisis” is far from over. Brunk, a Virginia nurse-midwife, writes about the organization she helped found there: “In French, the word ‘midwife’ translates as ‘sage femme,’ which literally means ‘wise woman.’ Midwives For Haiti is humbled to be grooming wise women in the most dangerous place in the Western Hemisphere to have a baby.”
- The Social Network, aka “the Facebook movie,” has dazzled critics coast to coast. But we knew the flick had a gender problem once we heard from Roger Ebert: “A subtext the movie never comments on is the omnipresence of attractive Asian women.” Jos at Feministing breaks down the film’s racial and sexist stereotypes, taking some small comfort in the two smart women that bookend the film. “In a film about men who are computer geniuses but clueless about human interaction both these women display emotional intelligence.”
- As it gets colder, is your car engine giving you trouble? Do you get tired of calling male mechanics who’ll rook you? It may be time to deal with it yourself — or at least to delight in Ann Farmer’s “Under the Hood” video, courtesy of our friends at On The Issues magazine.
The Wednesday Five: Having Ines Sainz’ Back, Black Women Rule Fashion Week, and Hold Off On That $900 Tub of Skin Cream
- Nia Online’s Girl! Get Me Started notes a happy milestone in the fashion world: “As New York Fashion Week presented designers’ visions of Spring 2011, black women were a big part of the conversation.” Highlighting designers Lois Smalls, Alice Samuels and Korto Momolu, she describes their designs in language nearly as vivid as the photos: “Trends seen included minimalism – lots of austere creations in white and taupe; bursts of bold colors like jade, cobalt blue, hot pink, ochre yellow and burnt orange; the ’70s influence (high waisted pants, loose sleeved tops and dresses, belted shirt dresses…” Click on the link for more, including some stunning designs.
- Helene Atwan, director of Beacon Press, writes at Guernica about some sane responses to recent religious hysteria: “While one man and his small group of followers in Gainesville, Florida are talking about burning copies of the Quran on 9/11, it’s been thrilling to see America’s secular and religious communities reacting in solidarity. Religious leaders, including Peter Morales, president of the Unitarian Universalist Association, are calling on their communities to read the Quran,” and the Massachusetts Bible Society has offered to provide two Qurans for any that are burned. Information is power, Atwan adds: “For those who would like to take the opportunity to read at least some passages from the Quran, you’ll find some excerpts” on a few linked sites.
- Ruth Martin at Moms Rising is deeply concerned about the Paycheck Fairness Act, which has passed the House but still needs to clear the Senate: “We need to move this bill forward before the Senators go home in two weeks,” she writes. In “Pass the Paycheck Fairness Act in 60 Seconds,” Martin provides a useful set of links and talking points for our calls to Washington. We might tell them, for example, that “our Senators can take comfort voting for the Paycheck Fairness Act knowing that in a nationwide poll of registered voters, 84% said they support a new law that would provide women more tools to get fair pay in the workplace.”
- Ever wondered about those $900-an-ounce wrinkle creams you read about? Ronni Bennett decided to put some to the test, and tells us at Time Goes By: “I bought a small bottle of one of the most popular and well-known anti-aging skin creams. I wanted to see for myself if it softens the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles, as the hype maintains, and if my skin would appear ‘significantly firmer after just five days.’ Five days later, my face was no firmer, but it and my neck were as splotchy and red as I might look if I’d been a heavy drinker for many years. I gave up the experiment, tossed the bottle of cream and three days later my face was clear again…. It’s amazing what people will endure in the name of false youth. A Google search for ‘anti-aging’ returns more than 17 million results.” Bennett then puts the knife to some of the most popular claims, most long-disproven, for products from human growth hormone to Resveratrol to our favorite (not!) bioidentical hormones.
- Last weekend, Strategerie at Little Pink Clubhouse couldn’t watch football without feeling renewed fury about TV reporter Ines Sainz, who a week ago “visited the New York Jets’ locker room last week to obtain some post-game interviews. Ms. Sainz was treated to behavior there that was frat house-worthy.” After Sainz reported the harassment, sports pages started chatting about the way Sainz was dressed (see Bitch for a good summary of that chat.) On Sunday, writes Strategerie, “I was infuriated all over again to hear Lance Briggs of the Bears’ comments to Pam Oliver on the situation. He claims the locker room is their ‘realm.’ After all, there’s a big sign on the door that says ‘girls not allowed,’ despite the fact that the women who brave what I can only imagine must be some horrific situations are there to do a job.“
On Friday, the House of Representatives passed two bills of importance to women. The Paycheck Fairness Act requires employers to pay equal wages to men and women who perform the same job unless there is a rational reason for the pay disparity. Also passed was the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which overturns the 2007 Supreme Court decision Lilly Ledbetter v. Goodyear Tire & Rubber Co. (550 U.S. 618). In the year since that decision, lower courts around the country have been busy deepening its effect, turning away suits charging discrimination based on sex, race and disability.